‘5 Answers’ is a simple, no-frills written series where we ask five people one same question and share them with you, the readers. A quick read aimed to spark conversations and share perspectives.
I asked 5 individuals in their thirties who date women this question, “What do you find most attractive in a woman?”
“Before I get a lot of heat for an answer that can easily be misconstrued as me being a male chauvinist, hear me out. I love when a woman cooks delicious food, not because I think women belong in the kitchen or any of that nonsense. Women can do absolutely whatever they want to, I’m just saying that I find it so attractive because I for one, can’t cook to save my life. It sucks ’cause I’m a massive foodie but that’s also why I find it so attractive. You know the saying ‘the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach’? Yeah, I’m that guy.” – Jackson
“This may sound like such a typical answer but I genuinely find women who have a big heart to be insanely attractive. Sure, it’s one thing to have beautiful features or an enviable figure, it’s a whole other thing to be absolutely stunning on the inside. The women who are kind and generous just exude a different kind of aura, I find myself helplessly falling for this type.” – Hans
“The most attractive woman in the room is intelligent and can carry a conversation. Beauty is only skin deep and only arouses seconds of pleasure, but a woman that is dumb is dull as stale bread. What stirs me is the package of a woman that can carry her own, speak her mind, and yet is centred and kind.” – Emily
“Independence and confidence is so charming. A woman who ‘I want it, I got it’ like the Ariana Grande song. Ain’t waiting on anyone else, just depends on herself. Someone who is confident and doesn’t fade into the background. That’s attractive.” – Kellan
“I find that having a great sense of humour is so underrated. I imagine having a partner who’s really funny, able to make me laugh even when things are tough, that’s just beautiful. Life can get hard sometimes and I just want to be with someone who’s like my best friend, share laughter and don’t take life too seriously. It’s not like anybody’s going to get out of it alive anyway.” – Yi Ru
What about you? What do you find most attractive in a woman?